The
disintegration of relationships - marital, social, political, professional and
familial - is often rooted in trust or, more specifically, in its breach.
If I can’t
believe what you say - be it a promise, an explanation or even a compliment -
the seeds of distrust fester and our relationship crumbles.
The fear of emotional
exposure and pain of our trust being betrayed causes us to build fortifying
walls of emotional distance around ourselves. This protects us from pain, but
also insulates us from potential love.
If we cannot
trust, we cannot love.
The price of
trust is vulnerability. The reward of trust is intimate relationships.